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Worth the Wait

Our baby is here!

Leading up to the birth, I’d been hoping for a more pleasant delivery experience than last time, and I got it! It wasn’t the all-natural birth that I’d always wanted, but it was wonderful nonetheless. Like last time, this was a relatively long labor. Before going to the hospital, I’d been having rather painful contractions for more than 24 hours, which meant that I hadn’t had much sleep. When my contractions were finally coming at regular intervals, Josh and I headed to the hospital.

We checked in about 2:30 a.m., and after some initial prep, I slipped into the tub to labor some more. While in the tub, I made the decision to get an epidural. My birth plan had been “wait and see,” but as I told my midwife right before delivery, I finally learned something about myself. For me, pain relief was the right decision.

The rest of the delivery went so much more smoothly than last time. I felt in control, I felt confident, and the baby was doing really well. After I was fully dilated, we waited about 30 minutes before I started to push. I used some of the Hypnobirthing techniques that I’d learned to focus on breathing the baby down, and I swear that it worked! By the time I started pushing, it only took five or so rounds. The baby was out 9 hours after we got to the hospital, as opposed to 14 hours during Linnea’s birth.

As my midwife put our new baby on my chest, I couldn’t believe how big he (It’s a boy!) looked. He weighed 8 lbs, 15 oz, and was 23 inches long. I think he will take after his very tall Daddy! We named him Linus James—the name we had picked out for a boy during my first pregnancy. Like Linnea, Linus is a popular name in Sweden, though quite rare in the U.S. He definitely looks like a Linus!

Josh, Linnea, and I are all adjusting well to life with Baby Linus. Josh is obviously so in love with the boy, and it’s sweet to see those two snuggled up together. Linnea has responded well for the most part, though she has requested that the baby be returned to my belly a couple of times now. Physically, I feel so much better than I did last time. I made it out of there with no stitches—what a pleasant difference! Emotionally, I am just ridiculously happy. Now, if we could just get a little more sleep!

27 comments to Worth the Wait

  • Congratulations! I’m so happy for you and so glad that the labor went well and that you followed your instincts!!
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  • congratulations!! beautiful. LOVE the name too!
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  • Congratulations! He is beautiful! Way to go, mama. Look forward to hearing all about him growing and Linnea teaching her little brother all sorts of fun thing. :-)
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  • Oh yay! I am so happy for you and your family. Love the name! Congratulations!
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  • Steph Leonard

    Love that Linnea has asked that Linus be returned to your belly – hilarious!
    Congratulations again, so happy for you.

  • Kathy

    Congratulations again, Emma! I am so happy to hear that labor and delivery went so well. Linus is beautiful. 23″ might be the longest baby I’ve heard of!

  • Melissa

    You cannot imagine how elated Piper was when I told her that the baby had come out of your belly. She threw her head back, covered her hands over her mouth and when she finally wound down, she said, “I CANNOT BELIEVE IT!” Okay, so she probably is pretty clueless about what happened, but it was still super adorable. She cannot wait to meet him. Neither can we. Sleep when the baby sleeps! :) XOXO

  • Moriya

    Congratulations! So great to hear you had a great birth experience. Enjoy your new family member!

  • Eric S.

    Congrats, Emma, Josh and Linnea! With that length, I’m thinking Linus might be the top basketball recruit in the class of 2029!

  • Rose

    CONGRATS!!! I have been checking daily to see when the new baby was here. I am so very excited for you all! I am really happy you had a pleasant birthing experience this time around.

  • Kristy

    Congratulations! Glad to hear things went well and that baby Linus is here and healthy! Take care!

  • so precious! many congratulations. :)
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  • Kathy McGowan

    Congratulations. You didn’t get much chance to wait! Yes, I think the births get easier because you leave behind so much of the unknown. My Brian was 23 – 1/2″ but he was 11 lbs. 1 oz. That’s why I commented to Rose that Linus must be long and lean. One of the young woman who works with us had quite the time with her daughter accepting the baby brother. She kept asking him to be sent back for a different one. One day Nanette went into the next room and heard a commotion. Came back and baby was on the floor. Didn’t get there by himself! It was kinda of a shocker for Nanette. Those sweet little girls can turn into monsters! My mom says she visited my school a month after my brother, Jerry, was born and the teacher hadn’t heard a word from me that I had a brother. I wanted another sister.

    • Emma

      Wow! How tall is Brian as an adult? I looked up Linus’ length on the CDC charts and 23″ is literally off the chart! :-)

      Luckily, Linnea seems to be directing her frustrations at me and Josh more than at the baby, but I will keep an eye on her!

  • HOORAY, EMMA!!! So happy you had a great birth experience and so delighted by your (not so) little boy! Sending you all sorts of good vibes during this transition period. Doubling your kid load is tough at first but you’ll get the hang of it in no time. Congrats Wilhelms! You make beautiful babies!!

    • Emma

      Thanks, Rachel! It’s been cool to watch you one step ahead of us. I am going to make every effort to savor these maternity leave days. I know yours went by too quickly!

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